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Store Stops Selling Crotchless Panties For Little Girls After Protests

A mother shopping at her local mall in Greeley, Colo. was aghast when she saw a pair of wildly inappropriately lingerie hanging in a store called Kids N’ Teen.

“They have cuddly little backpacks, and pretty little princess dresses,” Erin French told 9News. “My first initial response was, ‘Am I really seeing that?’”

French took out her cell phone to record the image of the garment for proof that her eyes weren’t deceiving her.

“They’re sized to fit a seven year-old girl,” said French. “That’s just… totally inappropriate.”

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On the rape of minors for profit.

The Backpage classified section of The Village Voice has long been used to advertise illegal services, whether it be pot sales or prostitution. I am of at least two minds concerning sex work by willing adults, but think it should certainly be decriminalized, possibly even made legal. If a pimp is abusive, he/she should be arrested and charged with assault, and if we started treating prostitutes like human beings, perhaps that would happen more often regardless of the law.

However, on one thing I am perfectly clear: The trafficking of minors is not only illegal, it is contemptible, an abomination, beyond reprehensible. And I honestly don’t care what the age of consent is in any given state, and am not interested in the splitting of hairs concerning the vocabulary surrounding such trafficking. “Teenage prostitution,” unless conducted by an 18 or 19 year old of his or her own free will, doesn’t exist — there is only teen rape, and those who profit from it. And some time ago, the world was made aware that Backpage is not only a source for bongs, coke, and BDSM professionals — it’s also a good source for the bodies of children.

This horrifying fact came up with particular fury surrounding last year’s Super Bowl, as part of the larger ugly fact that whatever city hosts the Super Bowl tends to also unwittingly host a Super Bowl of sex trafficking on the weekend of the game.

Village Voice Media has made a lot of noise about the fact that it’s concerned about the trafficking of minors through its site, but when called on in public (and – horrors! through a PR firm! Because no one ever uses PR firms unless their motives are nefarious!) by 51 US Attorneys General and 36 members of the clergy to act with greater urgency and close down the Adult Services classifieds that serve as the cover for the sale of children’s bodies — it lashed back:

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Child Hunger: Brought To You By The Letters "F" And "U", Apparently

Can you tell me how to get… how to get to a food truck on Sesame Street?

National Review’s Julie Gunlock takes great umbrage with the notion of the latest puppet character on Sesame Street: Lily, a little girl who sometimes goes hungry.

Although Lily is just the latest politically charged plot to come out of Sesame Street, the problem with this storyline is that it is absolutely false. In fact, Lily’s lucky to be “poor” in this country. Sesame Street would be wiser to educate America’s children about the real poor and hungry — the 98 percent of the world population who live outside the United States.

The truth is, 94.3 percent of American households are able to put enough food on the table every day to feed their families. And despite the grim “facts” and figures thrown around by children’s television programs, celebrity spokespersons, and the mainstream media, the vast majority of children living in America are healthy and well fed.

The facts about hunger in America really aren’t that alarming — certainly not alarming enough to warrant a whole new Sesame Street character!

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VIDEO: President Obama's Back to School Speech — Some Folks Don't Want to Listen, the Smart Ones Do

The disrespect is becoming commonplace

US President Barack Obama delivers his third annual Back-to-School Speech at Benjamin Banneker Academic High School in Washington, DC, on September 28, 2011. President Obama encouraged students to study hard and take responsibility for their education, urging students to set goals, to believe in themselves. UPI/Shawn Thew/POOL

I was just perusing the wall of a a couple groups to which I belong on Facebook. One friend posted the following about yesterday’s back-to-school-address, which Obama delivered at Benjamin Banneker Academic High School in Washington D.C. [video after the jump]:

The TV is currently on an Atlanta station showing the late evening news. It was mostly just background noise until I heard a story that stunned me. Some elementary schools in suburban Atlanta are only allowing children to watch Obama’s news conferences in class with a letter of consent from the parents. A school administrator said this policy is because many parents do not want their children to see or hear Obama’s speeches. WTF !! Has this EVER happened under any other president?? I intend to do some research online to find out what Atlanta area school this happening in.

My response?

this happened last year as well, i think. it’s insanity.

That’s it. That was my response. Entire schools and school districts across the country decided to black out President Obama’s back-to-school speech (because of parent complaints, apparently), and that fact — along with the blatant disrespect attendant to that fact — barely registered.

This is what I mean when I say that I’m numb to the dumb.

After a quick google search, it seems only FoxNation is carrying the story (to which I will not link, but an image of which is here):

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President Obama Cares About A Future For Our Children

President Barack Obama talks with Andrew Kline, outgoing Chief of Staff, Office of Intellectual Property Enforcement, in the Oval Office, July 12, 2011. Kline’s daughter, Logan, sits atop the Resolute Desk. (Official White House Photo by Pete Souza)
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Things about me which please me (and even occasionally make me proud).

The other day I wrote about things I do of which I am ashamed.

This shame is based in my personal, and particular, experience with patriarchy and my understanding of feminism, and it’s real, but it’s dawned on me in the meantime that it might have been useful to note that I don’t exactly live my life soaked in shame or guilt. I have moments. The third and fourth things on the list plague me to a greater or lesser degree fairly regularly, but I don’t walk around in a morass of self-loathing. Mostly, on most days, I’m pretty ok with myself.

But if I think about it, expressing shame or guilt — while honest and I think even important (we can’t deal with something until we admit to ourselves that it’s a problem. Hello, daughter of the 12 Step Programs here!) — is hardly revolutionary. In fact, it’s kind of part-and-parcel of the Judeo-Christian (I cannot believe I just used that term) worldview, and — even more problematically — part-and-parcel of Western social norms and mores for women. We talk about what we’re doing wrong all the time, frankly.

What would be revolutionary, perhaps, would be to talk about what we do right.

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Oldie-but-goodie: Ow! My heart!

Right. If any denizens of any blog deserve a moment of sweetness, it is mos def the denizens of this blog right here. And so, while I still don’t know what’s up with me, blogosphere-wise, I give you hereunder a very sweet oldie-but-goodie.

I was just snuggling with my daughter in her wee bed, and she had been quiet for a minute or two when she says to me: “How many people draw perfect circles?” (Only she still says “puh-fect suh-cles”).

I say “Oh, not many.”

“Yeah, that’s probably done by machines.”

“You know what honey, you really have to settle down now….”

“Can I just -?”

“One thing,” I say, my cheek against her forehead, my arms around her.

“You know those things that you trace where you make everything just puh-fect?”

“Yeah….”

“Does a machine make those things?”

“Yeah, a machine makes them.”

“I thought so. I knew a puh-son couldn’t make it like that.”

I grin and grin and pull her even closer, kiss her forehead, and say: “You are, just, figuring out the world…!”

And without missing a beat she says: “But I’m only just at the start of it. Because I’m six years old.”

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Oldie-but-goodie: Fragile

(I’m doing some serious thinking about my place in the blogosphere,
but in the meantime am running oldies-but-goodies, because some posts deserve another moment in the sun!)

Okee dokee then! Today, both kids were home sick. So, no serious blogging, and indeed, no time even to mine the depths of YouTube or Boing Boing…!

The good news, though: It’s not (in the words of my buddy dissolver) the Hamthrax. They have colds and ear infections and all will soon be well (in an aside: You know that you’re surrounded by flu panic when a cold/ear infection diagnosis makes you happy).

In the course of worrying about them last night, though, when they we were both pretty darn miserable and asking (asking!) to go to bed, I was reminded of the following piece that I wrote back in 2007. It ran in the Dallas Morning News, and I remember crying as I wrote it. Today it’s a cold, but someday, it’ll be something much bigger — and I won’t be able to do a damn thing.

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Our children, so fragile

EMILY L. HAUSER

02:49 PM CDT on Sunday, May 13, 2007

When pregnant with my first child, I had the opportunity to ask my graduate school adviser if we might discuss “my future.” With a glance at my belly, he looked me in the eye and said: “Thirty years of heartache.”

To which story my aunt later responded: “Only 30 years?”

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Oldie-but-goodie: On ruining my children’s summer.

I’m doing some serious thinking about my place in the blogosphere, but in the meantime I’ll be running the occasional oldie-but-goodie —
because some posts deserve another moment in the sun!

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My kids go to this insanely awesome camp*. They come home dirty and tired, telling god-awful jokes and roping me into games I’ve never heard of, telling tales of kindness (“I got Camper of the Day! Because I helped the little kids!”) and singing really annoying songs, like for instance, “This Is A Song That Gets On Everybody’s Nerves.” Summer camp, just as God intended!

But, as is often the case in human endeavor (I don’t know if you’ve noticed), the occasional imperfection slips through. One song that came home really bugged me — that is, not in the way it was meant to.

To the tune of Ironman: “I’m the ice cream man/ running over fat kids in my van/ when I ring my bell/ all the little kiddies run like hell/-icopters/ but they won’t get far/ cause I have a sniper in my car/ when I shoot them down/ a hundred days later/ their blood turns brown/ then I start again/ because/ I’m the ice cream man…”. Etc.

Can you pick out the one word that resulted in a lecture about social justice?

Nope. No, not that one either. “Sniper”? Well, good guess, given that we’re a gun-free house, but: Nope.

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